Theodore “Ted” J. Lisota, Sr.
It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Theodore (Ted) Jon Lisota, Sr., who died suddenly, October 5, 2021, at the age of 83.
Ted was born June 16, 1938, to Chester and Marwood (Sandberg) Lisota at home in Sandberg Valley, the second of eight children. He graduated from Melrose-Mindoro High School, where he played both offense and defense on the football team. He went on to serve his country in the U.S. Marine Corps, First Marine Division, “A” Company, First Recon Battalion, receiving an Honorable Discharge as a corporal in 1958. He served in the Reserves until 1962. While serving in the Corps, Ted achieved the distinction of Expert Marksman and continued this expertise throughout his life, teaching many apprentices along the way. Ted married JoAnn Anderson in Oceanside, CA, in 1957, and together they had two children. They later divorced. Ted married Ann (Fernholz) Jansky in Nashua, IA, on October 18, 1982. After completing his active military service, Ted returned to Wisconsin, working in construction until becoming a deputy sheriff with the Milwaukee County Sheriff’s Department. He served there for eight years, including during the Civil Rights riots of the 1960s. Ted then became a deputy sheriff with the La Crosse County Sheriff’s Department, rising to the rank of Chief Deputy and then to the distinction of the first-ever Captain on the La Crosse County Sheriff’s Department. He retired after 37 years of dedicated law enforcement service.
Ted was, in the words of his son Ted Jr., a work of art. He was a loving brother, husband, father, and grandfather. He was blessed with incredible abilities to solve problems of all kinds, able to read people, fair, tough on the outside and tender on the inside. During his career he saved many lives and was the rare kind of person that you would want next to you in a crisis, or even when you needed someone to taste-test the gravy. He was a rock. He just had that way. He was a generous man who valued honesty and went a long way to help someone in need, not a handout but a hand up. He came from humble beginnings and truly made a meaningful and prosperous life through his belief in hard work, serving his country and community, and raising a family. He loved reading and hunting, had a great love of the land and nature in all its beauty, and his family. He enjoyed Packers games when they were winning, appreciated fine whiskey and a good joke, and always surprised us with the acuity of his mind — extra sharp his whole life. He loved music and was also a great dancer. Every summer he and Myron raised a very large vegetable garden, and it gave him great pleasure to share the spoils of this garden with his family and many friends in the North Bend community. Ted loved deeply and loved being loved and appreciated by his family and friends.
Ted is survived by his wife of 38 years, Ann Lisota; children: Theodore J. Lisota, Jr. of Melrose, and Sherri Lisota of Holmen; his stepson, Jacob (Sara) Jansky of Mukwonago; his siblings: Donn (Deana) Lisota of North Bend, Thomas Lisota of Cudahy, Susan (John) Tilch of Delafield, Jon (Yvonne) Lisota of Crete, IL, Jane Lisota of Rome, NY, Alex Lisota of Manchester, NH; his grandchildren: Timothy J. (Erin) Lisota, Adriana M. Christians, Shannon Kolen, Patricia Lisota, JoHanna (Brayden) Liebenberg, Alayna and Emma Jansky, Ashley (James) Jessen, Allie (Samuel) Gronning; ten great grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.
He is also survived by his best friend and brother, Myron (Emily) Anderson of Ettrick. Ted is further survived by sisters-in-law: Sandy (Al) Janeczko of Tomah, Mary Wojchik of La Crosse, Kris (Mark) Van Acker of Arcadia, Jennifer (Mark) Rayor of Buena Vista, Baja, Mexico; and a brother-in-law, Paul (Karen) Fernholz of Reedsburg.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Chester and Marwood Lisota; his brother, Charles; and his brothers-in-law: Leon Fernholz and Anthony A. Fernholz. He leaves to mourn many friends and family and will be deeply missed. Memorials in honor of Ted may be made to the Town of North Bend historical fund, c/o Jimmy Cornmeyer, or the La Crosse County Sheriff’s Department Canine Unit.
Family and friends are invited to a memorial service for Ted, officiated by Pastor Steve Dawson, on Saturday, November 13, at 12:00 p.m., at The Gathering Place, 133 Mason Street, Onalaska, WI; P: 608-788-2188. Visitation will be held from 10:30 a.m. until the time of the service. Military Honors will follow the service. In honor of Ted, a time will be set aside during the service to share stories, memories, love, and laughter.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
Matthew 11:28 – 30
